Wahoo Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 I posted this elsewhere but think it needs it's own thread. A mate of mine has recently found out, that his current partner of 5 years, is not only refusing to work and spending his money, but also entertaining someone else while he works his ******** off.Fortunately he wouldn't let her live with him, but she's been using his house for shagging to prevent gossip, because he works away and she has a key to his place.He's pretending he doesn't know and thinking of an appropriate revenge. He goes home in 3 weeks time. Anyone got any ideas.He wants to ****** the local bloke over without getting into a fight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeDavola Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Install a covert camera in the hallway, get photo/videos of them arriving together, post the lot on facebook and link in both parties family and friends to show them all what's been going on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
long time lurking Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Camera +Facebook To slow but i was thinking of an x rated version Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahoo Posted July 31, 2016 Author Share Posted July 31, 2016 Yes...good idea. But isn't it illegal to use spy equipment? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeDavola Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Camera +Facebook To slow but i was thinking of an x rated version I had initially thought X-Rated, but that would be illegal I guess. A camera in a hallway, well that's just home security. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anonguest Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Yes...good idea. But isn't it illegal to use spy equipment? What even in your own home? FWIW I've always felt that revenge is a dish best served cold. Far better to wait until the heat of his anger has cooled and he can think more clearly - not least lest he do anything even more unforgiveable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Masked Tulip Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Um, these suggestions are now illegal under the revenge laws - people posting photos, texts, video, of partners online in order to shame and gain revenge. Change the locks and sheets. Move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahoo Posted July 31, 2016 Author Share Posted July 31, 2016 My mate suggested he was going to take a photo of her and sending it to the other guy. I think he was suggesting her naked with the date. Then get rid and yes....change the locks and sheets. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeDavola Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 She's turned into a right cuntbitch. When he went away she sent him a photo of herself in her negligee with make up on. She had spent ages with the make-up. He thought it odd but then decided she just wanted to please him. Now he realises that it was for her other bloke, and she got some perverted pleasure out of it....like 'Look at me, I'm about to get ******** while your away' !!!! Other bloke probably told her to do it as a game. If she's phoned your mate, she could have been talking to him while getting pumped by the other bloke. Again, as something to get off over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fully Detached Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 First of all, he might be your mate, but there are two sides to every story. From personal experience, I refused to talk to a girl for several years because she cheated on my best mate, seemingly with no prior warning or signs of unhappiness. Over the years I've come to realise that there were two sides to that story, and that in fact she spent two years practically screaming at him that she was not happy - I never heard the other side because my mate had never noticed that there was one, and thus never told me about it. Irrespective, he has nothing to gain and a lot to lose from going down the revenge route. Best bet is to move on as TMT says. Stuff you do when you're hurt has a habit of biting you very badly in the backside. edit for more info Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahoo Posted July 31, 2016 Author Share Posted July 31, 2016 There's ****** all he can do, bar getting his keys back. What age is the shagbag? Oh this is an object lesson in leaving women with no kids alone. Women get lonely and look for ckoc. She's in her early 40's....he's 10 years older. They got engaged about 18 months ago. He now wonders if she's been shagging other men too. I've told him to get checked out. There's an antibiotic resistant form of gonorrhea out there. She has a drink problem too...I believe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahoo Posted July 31, 2016 Author Share Posted July 31, 2016 First of all, he might be your mate, but there are two sides to every story. From personal experience, I refused to talk to a girl for several years because she cheated on my best mate, seemingly with no prior warning or signs of unhappiness. Over the years I've come to realise that there were two sides to that story, and that in fact she spent two years practically screaming at him that she was not happy - I never heard the other side because my mate had never noticed that there was one, and thus never told me about it. Irrespective, he has nothing to gain and a lot to lose from going down the revenge route. Best bet is to move on as TMT says. Stuff you do when you're hurt has a habit of biting you very badly in the backside. edit for more info Yes...makes sense. And if he dumps her first, he has the high ground and self-respect intact. He might feel differently if she dumps him. The other bloke is a low wager. He is a big earner. Her lifestyle reflects his earnings. Seems tough that us blokes have to just accept this crap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrPin Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 MtPin says "****** you Bitch" MrPin is a man ot reason who llikes cuddly laidies! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spyguy Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 She's in her early 40's....he's 10 years older. They got engaged about 18 months ago. He now wonders if she's been shagging other men too. I've told him to get checked out. There's an antibiotic resistant form of gonorrhea out there. She has a drink problem too...I believe. Jesus. I was assuming she was in her mid 20s and he was similar. Shes old enough to know better. So's he. This sort of shagathon gets sleazy when you are older then 35. Id say your mates has hooked up with the towns (old) bike,. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spyguy Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Never touch a woman with a drink problem. Yes on the clap. Shes probably riddled. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spyguy Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 There's no point trying to catch them on camera. Id guess the entire village/town know shes shagging around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeDavola Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 There's no point trying to catch them on camera. Id guess the entire village/town know shes shagging around. I would also hazard a guess that if they've been together for 5 years this probably isn't the first bloke she's cheated on him with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spyguy Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 I would also hazard a guess that if they've been together for 5 years this probably isn't the first bloke she's cheated on him with. Sadly, you may be wrong. He might be an ex, who's been floating around. In my experience, there's a lot of women who need to be in a relationship/potential for a shag. If there's not cokontap then they go and look for it. As they get older, the men they pick up get worse + worse. The OP's mate has obviously pulled a dud. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
long time lurking Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 I had initially thought X-Rated, but that would be illegal I guess. A camera in a hallway, well that's just home security. Really ? i would have thought you could film the interior of your own home any time you want ,i have seen TV programs broadcasting x rated stuff from stolen Apple macs with tracking software Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happy_renting Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Um, these suggestions are now illegal under the revenge laws - people posting photos, texts, video, of partners online in order to shame and gain revenge. Change the locks and sheets and girlfriend. Move on. Corrected for you - you left out an important bit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
libspero Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Um, these suggestions are now illegal under the revenge laws - people posting photos, texts, video, of partners online in order to shame and gain revenge. Change the locks and sheets. Move on. Do you have a link to that TMT ? AFAIK revenge PRON is illegal, but I can't see anything about posting fully clothed pictures of your wife and some friend she's bought home on Facebook. I'm not suggesting it's the best way to handle the situation but I'd be surprised that it's illegal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juvenal Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Tell him to tell her he's got a dose, but it's taken him eight months to pluck up the courage to tell her... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Masked Tulip Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Do you have a link to that TMT ? AFAIK revenge PRON is illegal, but I can't see anything about posting fully clothed pictures of your wife and some friend she's bought home on Facebook. I'm not suggesting it's the best way to handle the situation but I'd be surprised that it's illegal. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/11531954/What-is-the-law-on-revenge-porn.html Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LiveinHope Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Um, these suggestions are now illegal under the revenge laws - people posting photos, texts, video, of partners online in order to shame and gain revenge. Change the locks and sheets. Move on. Best advice. There is a saying that if you are planning on revenge it is best to dig two graves first. Personally, they should move on silently, no animosity just a silent 'good bye', they don't need to even give a reason. Let the girlfriend puzzle it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
libspero Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/11531954/What-is-the-law-on-revenge-porn.html So it is specifically/exclusively for pronographic revenge, not just posting (normal) pictures of them on social media. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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