So basically the ideal scenario is you've just served a 10 year stretch at her majesty's pleasure (shows arrogance), you get out inherit a load of cash and a house (makes you cocky confident) - your now exactly what an attractive women wants.
The other side of the coin, your a church going nice guy (not cocky) with a stable job (not arrogant) and you rent your place; no attractive women in her right mind will touch you.