200p Posted August 1, 2016 Share Posted August 1, 2016 How's about this then? He spent a lot of time and effort in the "set up". Not his fault, but he was probably a meticulous and overly a "nice guy". You know, the music, candles all the way up the stairs, the cards, the confetti on the floor etc. All the stuff on Facebook, What's app, twitter etc also. Too much. I don't think girls like that as they find it suffocating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winkie Posted August 1, 2016 Share Posted August 1, 2016 I got the feeling she was working out how she could break it to him. She's probably relieved. ...he was rather controlling, over powering and meticulous, could be you are right....so worked out well for both then, or possibility not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahoo Posted August 1, 2016 Author Share Posted August 1, 2016 Just had a call....she's gone into Anti-Slut Defence. Women have an internal fear of being judged a slut by her peers, family or society. The hamster in her head appears to be working overtime on it's wheel, so she can preserve her integrity. She's suggesting she was forced into having sex and it was not in any way her fault ! Sounds like plausible deniability to me. (Just to be clear....I'm not the person she's bonking) Also my mate tells me he's getting loads of hysterical texts this evening.....which he's ignored. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knock out johnny Posted August 1, 2016 Share Posted August 1, 2016 Just had a call....she's gone into Anti-Slut Defence. Women have an internal fear of being judged a slut by her peers, family or society. The hamster in her head appears to be working overtime on it's wheel, so she can preserve her integrity. She's suggesting she was forced into having sex and it was not in any way her fault ! Sounds like plausible deniability to me. (Just to be clear....I'm not the person she's bonking) Also my mate tells me he's getting loads of hysterical texts this evening.....which he's ignored. What's caused this turn of events? Has he called her out on it, or a third party threatening her little game? Surely something has happened Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahoo Posted August 1, 2016 Author Share Posted August 1, 2016 What's caused this turn of events? Has he called her out on it, or a third party threatening her little game? Surely something has happened Good question...I don't know. The locksmith informed him there was a mobile phone next to the bed. Can't be hers...possibly his.....and the evidence is now locked inside. Looks like the advice to say nothing is causing her great stress.....good call guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RentingForever Posted August 1, 2016 Share Posted August 1, 2016 Maybe she read this forum? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LiveinHope Posted August 1, 2016 Share Posted August 1, 2016 Good question...I don't know. The locksmith informed him there was a mobile phone next to the bed. Can't be hers...possibly his.....and the evidence is now locked inside. Looks like the advice to say nothing is causing her great stress.....good call guys. I said it on the Brexit thread when there was concern that the leave side weren't making enough rumpus, that it's always the case that quiet mice get to eat the most cheese. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dances with sheeple Posted August 1, 2016 Share Posted August 1, 2016 Ive met someone else. Its your mum. "I`m shagging someone else....it`s your Dad" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justthisbloke Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 Just had a call....she's gone into Anti-Slut Defence. Women have an internal fear of being judged a slut by her peers, family or society. The hamster in her head appears to be working overtime on it's wheel, so she can preserve her integrity. She's suggesting she was forced into having sex and it was not in any way her fault ! Sounds like plausible deniability to me. (Just to be clear....I'm not the person she's bonking) Also my mate tells me he's getting loads of hysterical texts this evening.....which he's ignored. So he told her he knows, then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SarahBell Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 Just had a call....she's gone into Anti-Slut Defence. Women have an internal fear of being judged a slut by her peers, family or society. The hamster in her head appears to be working overtime on it's wheel, so she can preserve her integrity. She's suggesting she was forced into having sex and it was not in any way her fault ! Sounds like plausible deniability to me. (Just to be clear....I'm not the person she's bonking) Also my mate tells me he's getting loads of hysterical texts this evening.....which he's ignored. If she persists he needs to report her to the police. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Masked Tulip Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 Isn't being forced into having sex, um, r@pe? I haven't kept up with the thread. Still think the best thing to do is to change the locks and move on. The guy has been let down by the person whom he should be most able to trust in life. Nothing more to be gained now. His future is ahead of him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Masked Tulip Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 You can't remember the future but your past is always with you. I think this is why we are here. So that we can have a linear experience. It was a Star Trek concept. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hail the Tripod Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 You can't remember the future but your past is always with you. Too much time on the mandela thread... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Masked Tulip Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 I think our linear experience began with the Big Bang. At what point did consciousness arise? Instantly or several billion years later? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepLurker Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 I think this is why we are here. So that we can have a linear experience. It was a Star Trek concept. People assume that time is a strict progression of cause to effect, but *actually* from a non-linear, non-subjective viewpoint - it's more like a big ball of wibbly wobbly... time-y wimey... stuff. That was a Dr Who concept. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John51 Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 I can see her confronting him a good few times when he's home. A restraining order against her will be the icing on the cake. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
libspero Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 Isn't being forced into having sex, um, r@pe? I haven't kept up with the thread. Still think the best thing to do is to change the locks and move on. The guy has been let down by the person whom he should be most able to trust in life. Nothing more to be gained now. His future is ahead of him. Makes you realise how false rape allegations start. Unless her boyfriend had forethought to film every sexual encounter with her he could be the next one for the drop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpectrumFX Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 At what point did consciousness arise? Instantly or several billion years later? How do we know for sure that consciousness has arisen? You've got that "I think therefore I am" line of reasoning, but the subjective impression of a thing isn't actual proof that it's real. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juvenal Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 Forget the philosophy. Get back to the action! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southmartin Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 OK bit late now, but IMHO 2 things he should have done: 1. Tell her he noted a special offer at local jewellers to have rings polished. Offer to take her engagement ring to them so it sparkles more... then keep it and sell it for a nice holiday afterwards 2. Look all distressed and tell her it's over. When she asked why don't tell her straight away.. just say "you've done something bad" and after 10 minutes of her prying, he should tell her that he thinks he's bisexual, as he's been sh*gging the bloke from the corner shop while she's been out (e.g the same guy she's banging) and now he's given him a STD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XswampyX Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 Great thread title. I wonder who it is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jfk Posted August 3, 2016 Share Posted August 3, 2016 Would it be rude to ask for her number Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldbug9999 Posted August 3, 2016 Share Posted August 3, 2016 Makes you realise how false rape allegations start. Unless her boyfriend had forethought to film every sexual encounter with her he could be the next one for the drop. I think having a load of sexy pics sent to his phone from her would be a pretty iron clad defence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
libspero Posted August 3, 2016 Share Posted August 3, 2016 I think having a load of sexy pics sent to his phone from her would be a pretty iron clad defence. How so? No means no regardless the circumstances. I seem to recall it all has something to do with drinking tea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StainlessSteelCat Posted August 3, 2016 Share Posted August 3, 2016 How so? No means no regardless the circumstances. I seem to recall it all has something to do with drinking tea. Just because they are sending pics of themselves drinking tea, it doesn't mean they want any of your tea apparently. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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