Cheers for all the advice,
We pulled out of the purchase today, in the end the seller was unwilling to even negotiate below 100k despite irrefutable evidence that she is cloud cuckoo land if she thinks she's getting that amount!
So we're back to the drawing board, renting is an option but with a young family we are really looking to put down roots and actually settle, we have looked at Bourtree Hill and Girdle Toll as options but to be honest these houses and the way the estates are laid out absolutely freak me out!!
If anyone has any recommendations for Ayrshire (with a daily commute to Glasgow!) I would welcome them all...
Thanks again to LWD & Lucy.