QUOTE(patiodoors @ Jan 7 2005, 07:02 AM)
The most sensible written article i've read on this website
I agree, read this stuff, there is a LOT of wisdom in it:
HOMEBUYERS
The right time to buy a family home is always when you find the right home. This may not mean the BEST home, it means the RIGHT home. And the right home is one you can SAFELY afford. Be aware of the risks of financial over-commitment.
You should CONSIDER lowering your price bracket. If you are looking for a home "up to $500,000" and you are risking your future, buy a cheaper home, even if it means you do not buy in your preferred area. This is safe and sound advice.
To protect yourself from interest rate rises, you should always ADD three percentage points to the cost of your loan to see if you can still afford the loan. If not, DON'T BUY. Interest rates will rise. They always do.
What will happen if you lose an income? If you are young and you have two incomes and you intend to live on one income and use the other for the mortgage, what if you have children? Most divorces begin with financial problems.
Think about your NEEDS instead of your wants. Most of today's needs did not exist thirty or forty years ago - when people were happier. The happiest people are NOT those who have the most, but those who need the least. Don't make the classic mistake of spending money you can't afford in order to impress people you don't like. Too many people do that.
As the psychologist, David Meyer, said…
"More than ever, we have big houses and broken homes, high incomes and low morale, secured rights and diminished civility. We excel at making a living, but often fail at making a life."
One study showed that most couples are so busy trying to pay off their debts that they spend an average of 12 minutes a day talking to each other. Debt is often worse than poverty. Watch out for debt, it's very seductive.
Thousands of people get up early and drive to work in a nice car which they are paying off, so they can earn a big income to pay a big mortgage on a big home that is left empty all day because they have to go to work to pay for it. Something is not right.
Your personal financial and emotional safety should be your major priority.
If you buy a home you can afford, it won't matter what happens to the real estate market. You will be safe. And you will be thankful for this advice. If things go well, you can buy a more expensive home later. When you can EASILY afford it.
It's a proven formula - low debt and careful living equals happiness