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#1 deadman

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Posted 19 August 2010 - 05:48 PM

For some reason at the moment I'm surrounded by people who continually 'fall out' with others.

It seems to be the same old faces. At work, for istance, one particular individual sits in their car rather than face colleagues at break time.

I get really tired of it.

Are you the type to fall out with people or do you seem to get along with the majority of people? It wears me down.

Is it in the genes? I don't understand it.
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Posted 19 August 2010 - 05:52 PM

For some reason at the moment I'm surrounded by people who continually 'fall out' with others.

It seems to be the same old faces. At work, for istance, one particular individual sits in their car rather than face colleagues at break time.

I get really tired of it.

Are you the type to fall out with people or do you seem to get along with the majority of people? It wears me down.

Is it in the genes? I don't understand it.

I'm ignoring you.
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Posted 19 August 2010 - 05:53 PM

Same here at work. Its just added pressure at work and at home (theirs).

Just don't get involved, or take sides. Ignore it and let them get on with it and get on with what you need to do.

Keep work colleagues, just that.

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Posted 19 August 2010 - 05:54 PM

For some reason at the moment I'm surrounded by people who continually 'fall out' with others.

It seems to be the same old faces. At work, for istance, one particular individual sits in their car rather than face colleagues at break time.

I get really tired of it.

Are you the type to fall out with people or do you seem to get along with the majority of people? It wears me down.

Is it in the genes? I don't understand it.


I've always thought of falling out with people as a particularly immature thing to do. Surely, mature adults will talk through their problem with the other guy[s].B)
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  • "I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones." - Albert Einstein.
  • "This fellow is wise enough to play the fool, and to do that well craves a kind of wit. He must observe their mood on whom he jests, The quality of persons, and the time" VIOLA, Twelfth Night, William Shakespeare
  • "Oh, when she's angry, she is keen and shrewd! She was a vixen when she went to school. And though she be but little, she is fierce." - HELENA, A Midsummer Night's Dream, William Shakespeare

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Posted 19 August 2010 - 05:54 PM

Sitting in their car - nothing wrong with that? The Archers is on about 2pm?

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Posted 19 August 2010 - 05:59 PM

I'm ignoring you.


Did you say something?
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Posted 19 August 2010 - 06:00 PM

Sitting in their car - nothing wrong with that? The Archers is on about 2pm?


Not at 10am, 11.45 am and 3pm though eh?
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Posted 19 August 2010 - 06:01 PM

Try not to talk to others about anyone behind their back....I try and see both sides of the story, in most cases there are reasons why people do and say things.....rarely, if someone is out and out nasty, selfish and a pain in the **** there are ways to get even, it is only a matter of time, when it is least expected. ;)
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Posted 19 August 2010 - 06:05 PM

Not at 10am, 11.45 am and 3pm though eh?


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  • "This is going to hurt you much more than it will hurt me." - Bossybabe
  • "I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones." - Albert Einstein.
  • "This fellow is wise enough to play the fool, and to do that well craves a kind of wit. He must observe their mood on whom he jests, The quality of persons, and the time" VIOLA, Twelfth Night, William Shakespeare
  • "Oh, when she's angry, she is keen and shrewd! She was a vixen when she went to school. And though she be but little, she is fierce." - HELENA, A Midsummer Night's Dream, William Shakespeare

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Posted 19 August 2010 - 06:23 PM

Not at 10am, 11.45 am and 3pm though eh?



...maybe they have agoraphobia, low self esteem or confidence...why don't you ask? ;)
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Posted 19 August 2010 - 06:25 PM

I often sit in my car for lunch.
Otherwise I'm constantly disturbed for the hour I don't get paid for.


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Posted 19 August 2010 - 06:28 PM

"at 10am, 11.45 am and 3pm though eh?"

That seems like a lot of breaks.

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Posted 19 August 2010 - 06:31 PM

Emotional Intelligence - Daniel Goleman.
The success or failure of your deeds does not add up to the sum of your life. Your spirit cannot be weighed. Judge yourself by the intention of your actions and by the strength you faced the challenges that have stood in your way.

The people closest to you have been trying to tell you that you have made a difference. That you did change things for the better. The Universe is vast and we are so small. There is really only one thing that we can ever truly control - whether we are good or evil.


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Posted 19 August 2010 - 06:34 PM

Not at 10am, 11.45 am and 3pm though eh?


Perhaps you have a very sensitive radar? I don't even register when people take their breaks.

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Posted 19 August 2010 - 06:38 PM

For some reason at the moment I'm surrounded by people who continually 'fall out' with others.

It seems to be the same old faces. At work, for istance, one particular individual sits in their car rather than face colleagues at break time.

I get really tired of it.

Are you the type to fall out with people or do you seem to get along with the majority of people? It wears me down.

Is it in the genes? I don't understand it.


I get along, in small talk compromise is easy, why not?




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