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1 hour ago, The Masked Tulip said:

Throughout history, at various points in various places, some Homo Sapiens Sapiens have lived in caves. Around the world today there are a few hundred thousand who either live in them or virtually in them. There's a few hundred thousand living in a cave system today in China.

I'm confused now. Is there a valid cave man diet or not?

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1 hour ago, PopGun said:

Thanks XXY, but I can handle a few keyboard warriors.

despite my disagreements with my fellow attendees, my devotion to the church of XXY is unwaning.

Are you dxyylexic?

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1 hour ago, developer said:

I seem to be the only one pushing the move abroad agenda quite hard, but then I am one of the younger posters here-  so others may already have dug their UK hole and just can't stop digging or climb out :P

In a way it's good to be a 'beta' here because it gives me the motivation to get in good shape so that when I finally move abroad I'll be an alpha yet still have the 'foreign women advantage' so to speak ;)

Take it to the nth degree and read the narcissism written by Saberu:

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These prices are more reasonable, I don't know why anyone would want to pay over 100k to live in Britain. If I'm not successful I'd rather buy a place in Dongguan, China for 40k.. the "services" capital of the world and cheap flights to Tokyo if I want to find real girls who are up for fun. Asian and South American girls seem to be the hottest in the world in terms of average standard, most British girls are fat and ugly.

Right now I'm teaching my girlfriend English so we can move to Australia then she'll get a job and I'll be on benefits, using my free time to get successful. If I'm not successful I will buy a place in China. If successful then buy a place in Tokyo B)

If I'm not successful I think my girlfriend wouldn't have a problem with me sometimes using 'services' available. If I'm successful then I don't think my girlfriend would have a problem with Japanese girlfriend numbers 2,3,4 and 5, and 6 :P

I think my relationship with my girlfriend is happier and more stable than most, I will probably marry her eventually. Chinese girls are more loyal than others if you find a good one, and the culture in China is that if you are rich you can have other girlfriends, if you are poor you can still use services.

Most married men I hear about on here seem depressed. Why would you want to tie your sex life to one girl for your entire life, unless you couldn't do better?

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No because I dated over 100 girls to find one who was pretty but not materialistic. She doesn't like me spending ANY money on her even a little bit, ofcourse I still spend money on her but it's out of choice rather than need and it's just stuff like treating her to go eat out on occasion. In China that's rare. But in other countries like Japan (and maybe in Britain I don't know) many pretty girls are not so materialistic.

Ofcourse she isn't perfect, has a little acne on her face which will probably go away when her diet improves as by my instruction. I will also be instructing her to get toned up by doing weights etc.

She is a good template for beauty. She just has a little acne on her face, her body has good muscle to it she just needs to tone it up a little and her facial structure is very normal/ beautiful.

Once she gets into the kind of condition I would like her to be in she will be one of a kind, as I'm her first/ only ever boyfriend and she is a virgin so she will become beautiful but her standards will not rise as she won't date other guys.

I suggest other guys to follow in my footsteps, find a girl who is just slightly below your ideal standard then help her get fit. This way you can get a girl with a great personality/ low maintenence but also very beautiful.

If you meet a beautiful girl that has been single/ had a chance to see her worth in the dating market there is an almost certain chance she will have high standards. Which is stupid considering beauty is mostly a byproduct of healthy diet and exercise.

If a girl becomes your girlfriend (very serious gf) or even better you marry her, and the girl has a very good heart/ great personality then you help her become beautiful she is much less likely to be 'high maintenence' ie materialistic or requiring you yourself to be very handsome. I'm a bit of a hypocrit like that... I would like my girlfriend to love me even if I'm not that handsome, so that if/when I decide to get fitter she will just utterly worship me B)

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Oh Please. If you think looks or money are AT ALL important then you are being a hypocrit. If you think neither are important then either you have low standards or you are lying.

I think it's a pretty smart method to be honest. Some girls will choose an intelligent boyfriend in the hope that one day he will be successful in business and earn them a comfortable living- exactly the same as my method only subtracting one vanity for another.

Edit: Another possibility is you are insulted because I am bypassing the most powerful influence a woman has over a man- her beauty.

Just like a more successful man would be angry that the girl he likes wants to date a poor man because he seemed intelligent and to have potential.

Changed my mind anyway. I am going to help her gain weight for the next couple of years because she is only 18 and her breasts will still be growing. If she puts on a lot of weight and massages her breasts regularly I think she will grow much bigger then by the time she reaches 20 they will be a nice size and she can start losing weight to get back to a natural size then tone up :)

I already had a feeling breast size had some relationship with putting on weight since a lot of fatter girls usually have bigger breasts but after looking on the internet I managed to confirm this.

 

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Just now, hotairmail said:

I'm confused now. Is there a valid cave man diet or not?

I would say the best diet is fruit, vegetables and a low fat source of protein. That will give you loads of fibre, nutrients and protein without the enemies of fat and (too many) carbs since fruit is so low calories. I think the '2000 calories a day' thing is bull if you are cutting, it might be possible to go as low as 1000 calories a day if you consider 100g of protein is only 400 calories and probably enough for most people unless you are hitting the gym hard and on a bulk.

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9 minutes ago, hotairmail said:

Are you dxyylexic?

Yes with sh1t phone auto correct.

Not sure why that explains how I keep referring to Joe as Dave though.

Sorry Dave I mean Joe... 

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6 minutes ago, The Generation Game said:

Take it to the nth degree and read the narcissism written by Saberu:

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Interesting he hasn't posted in a while. Perhaps he was banned I wonder why, maybe his bad attitude? :P

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Italy's state-owned broadcaster cancels 'sexist' talk show

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/blogs-trending-39326989

An Italian talk show is taken off air after issuing sexist advice on dating Eastern European women

The TV show broadcast a graphic entitled "Reasons to choose an Eastern European girlfriend", which listed:

"1. They are all mums, but after giving birth they regain their figure

2. They are always sexy. No tracksuits or pyjamas

3. They forgive cheating

4. They are willing to let their man rule

5. They are perfect housewives. They learn all house works at young age

6. They don't whine or get clingy, and they never hold a grudge."

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21 minutes ago, Turned Out Nice Again said:

Italy's state-owned broadcaster cancels 'sexist' talk show

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/blogs-trending-39326989

An Italian talk show is taken off air after issuing sexist advice on dating Eastern European women

The TV show broadcast a graphic entitled "Reasons to choose an Eastern European girlfriend", which listed:

"1. They are all mums, but after giving birth they regain their figure

2. They are always sexy. No tracksuits or pyjamas

3. They forgive cheating

4. They are willing to let their man rule

5. They are perfect housewives. They learn all house works at young age

6. They don't whine or get clingy, and they never hold a grudge."

 

7. Their Dad won't leave a severed horses head in your bed if you stray.

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41 minutes ago, PopGun said:

Yes with sh1t phone auto correct.

Not sure why that explains how I keep referring to Joe as Dave though.

Sorry Dave I mean Joe... 

Did you get your phone from a bloke in a pub in Peckham?

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19 hours ago, PopGun said:

Simple, some women are nuts and never happy. 

Think about it. I'm not sure what the lifespan of an average cave woman was, but I'm guessing it wouldn't be very high.

This probably explains why women have their fertility/birthing peak <25. We can probably agree on that.

That doesn't give the average cave woman many years or time to 'play the field' or shit test cavemen does it? They were on the edge of survival, extinction lurking behind every corner. It was mate with best available male at that time as quickly as possible when they're still young enough to survive labour and defend her child from Sabre Tooth Pandas.

if Cave women doesn't put out, Caveman goes elsewhere. Sound familiar?!

Notice the importance here of available mates. There must be some reason betas have not been bred out of the gene pool after eons of evolution. Be it better providers, the smartest (tools) or simply the only men left after the alphas have killed each other in club duels.

ALL women do the same stuff though? You will have to come up with something better than this. (and no, I haven`t met/f*ucked ALL women, so don`t use this as an excuse why your reasoning sucks)

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7 hours ago, developer said:

I would say the best diet is fruit, vegetables and a low fat source of protein. That will give you loads of fibre, nutrients and protein without the enemies of fat and (too many) carbs since fruit is so low calories. I think the '2000 calories a day' thing is bull if you are cutting, it might be possible to go as low as 1000 calories a day if you consider 100g of protein is only 400 calories and probably enough for most people unless you are hitting the gym hard and on a bulk.

You're better off looking at it in terms of percentage calorie restriction from a base level calorie requirement. My weight would be stable at circa 2932 calories a day (that's based on regular weighing, and a food diary I've maintained for over a year). 1000 a day would kill me. Even 2000 is too little for any sustained period. The minimum I would target is a 25% restriction, so about 2200. I sometimes get below that on individual days, but by accident rather than design, and it'll ****** me up if i maintain it (i know because I've done it :) )

 

 

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11 minutes ago, SpectrumFX said:

You're better off looking at it in terms of percentage calorie restriction from a base level calorie requirement. My weight would be stable at circa 2932 calories a day (that's based on regular weighing, and a food diary I've maintained for over a year). 1000 a day would kill me. Even 2000 is too little for any sustained period. The minimum I would target is a 25% restriction, so about 2200. I sometimes get below that on individual days, but by accident rather than design, and it'll ****** me up if i maintain it (i know because I've done it :) )

 

 

Are you a lumberjack?

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9 minutes ago, Turned Out Nice Again said:

Are you a lumberjack?

No, but I'm not allowed to drive and so get more exercise than most before i even start trying, just in getting my **** from place to place. :)

 

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11 hours ago, happy_renting said:

If a woman demanded that I treat her like a Princess, I'd offer to drive her without seatbelts at 120mph in a Paris underpass at night in a Mercedes.

Disney Princess - Virgin with trust fund

Dating Site Princess - "Experienced" with credit card debt.

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On 3/20/2017 at 9:41 PM, developer said:

I seem to be the only one pushing the move abroad agenda quite hard, but then I am one of the younger posters here-  so others may already have dug their UK hole and just can't stop digging or climb out :P

In a way it's good to be a 'beta' here because it gives me the motivation to get in good shape so that when I finally move abroad I'll be an alpha yet still have the 'foreign women advantage' so to speak ;)

I've decided I'm going to give it a go if I can get my latest venture off the ground, which is purely online this time. All I'll need is a laptop and a decent internet connection. Better than saddling myself up with a boat load of debt to buy a overpriced house and still dealing with s. Might go bankrupt before then mind. 

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12 hours ago, The Generation Game said:

Take it to the nth degree and read the narcissism written by Saberu:

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Jesus Christ that made my flesh creep.

I have to say since I haven't been on a date in longer than I can remember, I'm starting to feel like a bit of a loser philosophizing about women on this thread when I've had nothing to do with any of them in a while.

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8 minutes ago, JoeDavola said:

Jesus Christ that made my flesh creep.

I have to say since I haven't been on a date in longer than I can remember, I'm starting to feel like a bit of a loser philosophizing about women on this thread when I've had nothing to do with any of them in a while.

Get some hobbies, build a side business, restore an old car, hit the gym. I imagine the only people going on dates every other night are either Chads on Tinder or men who are happy to date fat single mums off PoF. If you want to hold out for a quality woman I think it's going to take a long time and a lot of real world interactions.

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13 minutes ago, gibbon said:

Get some hobbies, build a side business, restore an old car, hit the gym. I imagine the only people going on dates every other night are either Chads on Tinder or men who are happy to date fat single mums off PoF. If you want to hold out for a quality woman I think it's going to take a long time and a lot of real world interactions.

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Any man who gets fitter will - 100% - have more success with women than his unfit old self would have done.  That fact by itself should never be forgotten.

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20 hours ago, Austin Allegro said:

I've concluded this is pretty much the norm with women on dating sites or those who are heavily into 'dating'. 

The women I know who are, as far as I can tell, happily married, are those who have fairly stable moods and who generally appreciate what they have in life.

The others seem to be perpetually unhappy, addicted to the latest 'fix' whatever that be - usually something to do with social media or their 'career' - and believing that the 'perfect' man is just a click away. The trouble is their idea of 'perfection' changes with the wind, so they are never satisified.

It's for this reason I dislike the term 'sh*t test' that the manosphere uses. It implies that womens' bad behaviour is some sort of 'test' that can be 'passed' by men. The simple fact is that if a man cares what that sort of woman thinks enough to want to pass the test, this immediately disqualifies him. Sh*t testing is just bad, mad behaviour, full stop. It can't be 'passed' or 'failed' because the criteria will simply change. Eg, a sh*t test to show you are willing to stand up for her against others may at first be perceived as  loyalty, but later can be seen as overbearing jealousy and not giving her 'space'. 

Essentially, you will always eventually end up as wrong. I agree with the rest of your post; it's all simply bad behaviour/mentalness.

I've come to the conclusion after decades of women that you can only ever really be happy with them if 1) You don't give a f*ck and 2) You keep them on a tight rein and 3) You never allow them any control over you (house, shared finances, general ability to f*ck up your life). With most women though, far too much work.

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1 hour ago, wherebee said:

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Any man who gets fitter will - 100% - have more success with women than his unfit old self would have done.  That fact by itself should never be forgotten.

Yup and all that time you gain by not messaging and getting ignored by ratbags on PoF or ending up wasting time on dates with professional daters who are looking for some mythical Christian Grey can be spent turning yourself into a modern day Adonis, improving your career/finances and having interesting hobbies so when you do eventually cross paths with a sane attractive woman you'll be in a good position vs some kind of dating wraith who's only accomplishment is fulfilling the narcissistic needs of the worst women who all end up online.

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1 hour ago, StarsEnd said:

Essentially, you will always eventually end up as wrong. I agree with the rest of your post; it's all simply bad behaviour/mentalness.

I've come to the conclusion after decades of women that you can only ever really be happy with them if 1) You don't give a f*ck and 2) You keep them on a tight rein and 3) You never allow them any control over you (house, shared finances, general ability to f*ck up your life). With most women though, far too much work.

The Scottish fascist Government is about to introduce new domestic violence laws into place to include 'Coercion' and 'Controlling behaviour' into the remit. Shock horror the two previous 'victims' [Would love to hear the other side of the story] shown in the main piece on Reporting Scotland yesterday were female. The main one stated the reasons for her being a victim. He chose what clothes she wore, if she could see her friends or not and had control over the finances.

It's laughable. I'd say at least half the blokes in the UK in long term relationships 'suffer' this sort of 'abuse' on an almost daily basis. Its standard for many.

Its mainstream and its made fun of in numerous TV shows and lots of adverts. The latest Webuyanycar one a great example. He states that even though they could get more money elsewhere using this lot made sense as he values their time and effort. HIs wife looks at him and says 'Ohh - that's the smartest thing you have ever said'.

Completely condescending, demeaning abusive comment. I personally couldn't care - its only an advert. But to have the regular abuse and putting down of men splashed across TV on a constant basis - whilst intruding laws that are clearly aimed at women being the victims due to similar behaviour - is pretty shocking.

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2 hours ago, gibbon said:

Get some hobbies, build a side business, restore an old car, hit the gym. I imagine the only people going on dates every other night are either Chads on Tinder or men who are happy to date fat single mums off PoF. If you want to hold out for a quality woman I think it's going to take a long time and a lot of real world interactions.

Thats all very well but problem with not bothering with regular (as in frequent) dating is that you get out of practice, you become outcome dependent on individual encounters. If/when you do eventually stumble on a "keeper" your very likely going to mess it up because because the stakes are high and you will be likely acting nervous and desperate. Unless your some who is supremely self confident and socially adept its likely that a downward spiral will set in - you get less as less confident as time between female encouters increases.

Online dating provides a regular stream of target practice. But please please forget PoF and use a proper dating site where you have to pay money.

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51 minutes ago, gibbon said:

Yup and all that time you gain by not messaging and getting ignored by ratbags on PoF or ending up wasting time on dates with professional daters who are looking for some mythical Christian Grey can be spent turning yourself into a modern day Adonis, improving your career/finances and having interesting hobbies so when you do eventually cross paths with a sane attractive woman you'll be in a good position vs some kind of dating wraith who's only accomplishment is fulfilling the narcissistic needs of the worst women who all end up online.

Yes I basically regret every second that I spent on POF after the first 6 months. Heaven knows how long I spent browsing the site, messaging people, texting people, and then going on, mostly bad, dates. It was all a complete waste of time that would have been far better spent doing pretty much anything else.

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21 minutes ago, ccc said:

The Scottish fascist Government is about to introduce new domestic violence laws into place to include 'Coercion' and 'Controlling behaviour' into the remit. Shock horror the two previous 'victims' [Would love to hear the other side of the story] shown in the main piece on Reporting Scotland yesterday were female. The main one stated the reasons for her being a victim. He chose what clothes she wore, if she could see her friends or not and had control over the finances.

It's laughable. I'd say at least half the blokes in the UK in long term relationships 'suffer' this sort of 'abuse' on an almost daily basis. Its standard for many.

Its mainstream and its made fun of in numerous TV shows and lots of adverts. The latest Webuyanycar one a great example. He states that even though they could get more money elsewhere using this lot made sense as he values their time and effort. HIs wife looks at him and says 'Ohh - that's the smartest thing you have ever said'.

Completely condescending, demeaning abusive comment. I personally couldn't care - its only an advert. But to have the regular abuse and putting down of men splashed across TV on a constant basis - whilst intruding laws that are clearly aimed at women being the victims due to similar behaviour - is pretty shocking.

That's covered a good half-dozen religions right there.

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